I just returned from an intensive training on transforming your destiny. I feel like I made 10 years worth of growth in 6 days. The biggest thing I learned was that you can turn any situation around by simply changing the way you respond to it. It may sound elementary but when practiced it is very powerful. Of course I was tested right away on it. I went to New Jersey this past weekend to do a workshop and everything went wrong. My flight was canceled, the next one was delayed, they lost my bag and I never got until I returned, I was late getting to the workshop?. Etc. In the past I would have been upset. I decided to change my view point ? wow, I now have 5 extra hours in the airport to check email and get ready. No luggage? Just yesterday?I said that I had wanted to shop in a big city so I got the chance to buy some more stylish clothes than I would get in Wilkesboro, NC. It all worked out and let me tell you how freeing it was to not allow external things and other people to take my peace and happiness. Pain and problems will never go away. Not allowing them to contol us can.?So when I got to the airport to come home I was mysteriously upgraded to first class. That was so cool.